One of the members of XXXChurch described this lunch as “easily the highlight of the conference for me” noting that Stoltenberg “was really impressed with the work that does and made the statement ‘I think meeting you guys is why I'm here.’ Total God-story.” ( XXXChurch Blog, 2007 XXXChurch Blog. When Dworkin, perhaps the most famous champion of the feminist anti-pornography movement, died in 2005, she and Stoltenberg had been life partners for over 30 years.Ģ.